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How to Get Noticed by Senior Leaders

There comes a point in your career when it seems like you’ll never get out of that obsequious layer of the company that is neither too junior for people to notice and not too senior to be taken seriously. And far too many people remain there, sometimes their entire career, because they don’t know how to get out.

That was me back in my early thirties. I had just started a wonderful new job at a much larger organization than I was used to. By then I had 5 years experience in HR and another 8 years as an Executive Assistant. The first few months were overwhelming to some extent. I had previous industry experience, so there was a very little learning curve. But my boss had a very different management style than I was used to.

So, in order not to upset her and subsequently get fired from this dream job, coupled with a sense of insecurity and lack of confidence in my aptitude, I kept my head down a job and did the best I could. I was diligent, detail oriented, organized and slowly but surely my new boss took a liking to me.

However, what I hadn’t anticipated was that this boss had insecurities of her own and rarely gave me the opportunity to get in front of people outside our immediate department. So much that her boss didn’t even know me, and we were a department of 13!

Despite my confidence issues at this job, I was ambitious. Always had been. I never thought that I could ever take matters into my own hands. Didn’t think I could stop relying on her to shine the spotlight on me.

It was inevitably something I read (something I can’t remember right now) that finally jolted me out of inertia. The article said that people wait far too long in their lives for the universe to align so they can make their move. In truth, getting to the destination is a series of small steps, not a giant leap.

So, here are the little things you can do to get noticed by senior leaders, or anyone else for that matter.

Know what you believe in

The first step is to figure out is what you stand for. People who agree with the majority rarely get noticed. Now, I’m not saying you need to be contrary for the sake of it, but if you genuinely don’t agree with a point of view held by most, then acknowledge that. At this stage, you’re not even going to voice it to others. You’re simply going to say to yourself “I disagree”. That’s it. The first step is done.

Now keep that with you and start building on it. What other things don’t you agree with? What other things do you think could be done differently and why? Put words to your feelings. Articulate them in your head. Have that argument with yourself. Writing works for me, so I put things on paper. It could be voice recordings for you.

Make the first move

With sufficient knowledge of what you stand for when you have an opportunity to say something, say it. Do not wait for someone to call on you. This takes an inordinate amount of courage. I know because the first time I spoke up at a large meeting, my heart was ready to explode, my voice kept catching in my throat, and my face was beet red. That particular meeting was with the Chief HR Officer (CHRO) from the parent company and a room full of HR Business Partners. And I was contradicting him. It was the scariest moment of my life.

But that comment was the catalyst for me. At that meeting, the CHRO didn’t even know my name. Within a year, he had become my biggest sponsor. That comment started my change process from hardworking wallflower to respected, sought-out professional (at least in that company).

The best part was that after realizing that I wasn’t going to get fired for saying what I did, I started to make more “first moves”, culminating in my final meeting at that company – debating with a room full of lawyers and winning.

Know that you can’t please everyone

Since starting my own company, I’ve learned a thing or two about marketing. There are lots of marketing tenets, but one universal truth about marketing is “When you try to please everyone, you please no one”. And by pleasing someone one, you’ll inevitably turn off someone else. The idea is to please someone fully and unequivocally. This applies perfectly to our professional lives too.

The purpose of this blog post is to teach you to get noticed by senior leaders. I can say this without a doubt – when senior leaders start noticing you, there will be others who will be jealous and upset by the attention you’re getting. Or there will be others who will wonder what you’re up to or where you came from. Know this and be prepared to experience this.

When I encountered my first condescending comment from a senior leader’s then-favorite, I was so taken aback and hurt by the comment. It set me back because I was not prepared for it. The next time it happened, I simply smiled. Above all, avoid the urge to be bitchy back unless you have something humorous to say.  I’m decidedly bad at witty comebacks so I resort to smiling or ignoring. If you have an example of when you dealt with a snarky remark, I’d love to hear it – go ahead and comment!

The plus side is that there will also be plenty of others who will be pleased to see you elevate. Keep those people close to you.

Be honest

Once you start getting noticed, people will ask your opinion on things. I cannot tell you how many people give up this golden opportunity to speak the truth because they’re afraid. Afraid to look unpolitical, to look like they’re complaining, to throw someone under the bus, to look helpless, that people won’t want to hear about their problems.

Now I’ll be the first to say that there is a fine line between being honest with no filter (like children are) and being honest when someone asks your opinion on matters. I’ve worked with so many people who complain about their circumstances, their boss, the workload, the little insanities at companies. But when they get the opportunity to voice these concerns to the senior executive of their group whether that’s in a town hall or a one-on-one meeting, they clam up.

If there is one thing you take away from this blog post, take this one away.

If you don’t voice your thoughts on how to make your company a better place, you are doing yourself and your colleagues a disservice.

I remember at one point, the same CHRO was trying to learn about the subsidiaries of the company. He invited a small group of people to talk to him about HR processes, practices, and other such matters. He selected me along with a senior manager on my team as well as a few others from the other companies. I was excited because there was a LOT wrong with our department and the way we did things and I was happy that someone was finally asking the right questions.

As we were walking over to the meeting, my colleague said that we should not be fully honest about what as happening at our subsidiary. I was surprised because this person was, I thought, a fearless leader. She said it was because no one else was going to be honest and we would make our company look bad in front of the other subsidiary HR people.

Now, think of this from my point of view. This senior manager was 10 years my senior. I was only an Advisor. I stumbled and second guessed myself. Maybe she was right. And if she was, was I ok with bringing my department down? If I spoke up, the team would hate me.

It was the first time I’d heard the “we shouldn’t say bad things about our team because it makes us look bad”. But it certainly wasn’t the last time.

In the end, I followed my instincts and spoke my truth. And because I did, others in the room followed suit. It was an incredibly freeing feeling. Even if nothing changed, at least I’d given voice to what could be instead of suffering silently.

By the way, lots changed after that, not just in our group but across the HR department, because so many of us spoke up that day.

Do the right thing for your career

Today, I get paid to be honest. As an independent consultant, I can be that voice for people within organizations when they’re afraid to speak up. I use my voice to the fullest extent possible. And the more honest I am, the more senior leaders want to work with me. It has become a self-fulfilling prophecy.

So, for all the aspiring consultants out there (and I know there are many of you), practice this skill and it will serve you well when you make the leap into consulting.

Today’s post is about how to get noticed by senior leaders to elevate your career. However, getting noticed and elevating your career will produce the inevitable side effect of being in a position to change things. It will start with your small world – your work, then your team, then your department, then your division, your company, the industry, your country, and the world. Change happens when you’re ok with the negative, jealous people and comments because you have your eyes on something bigger than them, bigger than even you.

Next week, I’m going to talk about leading without authority and how you can influence things even if you don’t have a title. Stay tuned!

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How to Find Your Passion at Work

If I asked you a question, would you answer it honestly?

Are you passionate about your job?

Before you answer, let’s define passion. The dictionary definition has many definitions: intense, driving, or overmastering feeling or conviction; ardent affection; a strong liking or desire for or devotion to some activity, object, or concept.

My definition: it’s the thing that makes you jump out of bed in the morning, the last thing you think about at night as you fall asleep, the thing that you think about in the shower, the thing that lights up your life.

Passion changes with each passing phase in your life. At times it’s a love interest, your children, your job, your vocation, your hobby. In keeping with the theme of this blog, we’re talking about passion on the job for this post.

Here’s another question:

Do you love your job?

Over the years, I’ve asked this to many, many people. Some people respond with a shrug and a “yeah, sure, it pays the bills”. Others say they like their job, but love other things more. Still others give me an emphatic “no”. There are many answers in between, but if you didn’t absolutely, without hesitation, answer “yes” to both questions, this blog post is for you.

We spend close at least 10 hours a day at work (or commuting to and from work). Some of us spend more time with our work colleagues than we do with our own families. To say that we don’t love our jobs is just not ok. I remember the day when I realised that the job I thought I loved, that other people said they could see I loved, didn’t do anything for me anymore.

It was the winter of 2015. I was sitting with one of my clients, a VP in the legal department. He was telling me about how he had lost his drive and I remember asking him the same question above. He said he loved what he did. He didn’t like the late nights, the robbed time with his two young kids and wife, and the undue stress it caused when he had to work through weekends and vacations. But that went with the territory of being a lawyer and he admitted that it was far better than being in private practice. Then he asked me the question and I responded with the same instinctive response I’d been giving people for years, “Oh, yes, I love my job.”

But as I walked back to my desk, the question lingered. Wait. Did I still love my job? What I had loved about HR was making a difference in people’s lives, making departments great by putting the right people in the right jobs, coaching people through difficult times, helping them love their jobs. Lately, though, it felt like I wasn’t doing that anymore. I was catering to a senior leadership team that I did not agree with, and simply executing on their decisions. I’d had to help terminate people I didn’t believe deserved to be terminated. My views were respectfully listened to, but were rarely heard. I was working with a self-important corporate group that were more concerned with their own empire-building than they were of the larger employee population. For the first time, in many, many years, I realized that I didn’t love my job. And I wasn’t passionate about what I was doing.

Falling out of love with your job is tricky. If you fall out of love with your hobby, you simply stop doing. So, we automatically think that falling out of love with your job means it’s time to look for another job. Which is exactly what I did, and what I’ve coached so many people before me to do. But the new job I went to was really more of the same thing. What I realized then is that when you lose passion for your job, it’s more than just the job, the company, and the boss. It’s the inner desire, the fire that keeps you going. When the fire dies, sometimes you can rekindle it by adding new kindling, lighter fluid, using a blower, but if that doesn’t work, you need to go to new grounds altogether.

But all that is easier said than done. When you have a mortgage to pay, a family to take care of, and obligations that depend on your job, you can’t just up and leave the industry and start over somewhere else. Sometimes you have no choice but to stay. But just because you have to stay, doesn’t mean you need to struggle to wake up in the morning, and it doesn’t mean you have to simply tolerate the place you spend almost half your waking hours.

Here are some tips to reignite that passion in your work life:

Remember what made you fall in love

Think back to those idealistic early days when you first got your job. What made it exciting? What made you leap out of bed in the morning? Was it the new learning? Or perhaps it was the newness of the people you were working with. Make a list of all the things you first loved about your job. If you’ve been in the role for a long time, the role may have been very different back then. Think about when things began to change, and what were the triggers that moved you from love to apathy (or worse).

Find ways to bring those things back

If you loved learning new things and the stuff you’re doing now is rote, it’s time to think of ways to reintroduce them into your life. It might be time to sign up for a new project that’s slightly out of your comfort zone. When you push your way into an unknown, it increases your drive to succeed, your problem-solving capability, your desire to win, and consequently, your desire to simply do.

Find your Why

Simon Sinek said it best. Once you find your why, what you do will make more sense. Why did you get into this field to begin with? Think less about your daily tasks you perform, and think about why you do them. What impact do those things have on the company and the people that work for the company. If you can’t remember your why at this moment, then it’s time for some reflection. Take some time off, or block off a time slot in your calendar. Go offsite and really think about why your job makes sense to you.

Find your Joy

You’ve heard of KonMari for your home. It’s the concept of only keeping that which sparks joy in your life. So, see which of the things that you do spark joy in your work and do more of that as much as possible. If you love coaching and helping people, then prioritize those things in your calendar. Sure, we can never totally eliminate the things at work that don’t spark joy, but you can try to increase the things that do. When you prioritize something, it becomes reality.

We spend far too long doing our jobs for us to spend our lives doing anything less than loving it. Now, go out there and find ways to rekindle that spark and passion in your work!